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Is Masturbation a sin?

⬛πŸŸͺ No, it's not a sin Here's what it is. If you have read my previous post, I did said it was a sin, but here's a correction. Hebrew 12:1(Therefore since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witness, let us throw away everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us) Some translation calls everything that hinders,  weight. I know we have tried to search the bible alot of time to look for where it is mentioned in the bible that masturbation is a sin, I have tried it too. But couldn't find. And this is where Hebrew 12 comes in. Have you tried to ask yourself what weights are? And why is it mentioned differently from sin? Sin and weight are two different thing. Sin are non-negotiable to God but Weights they come in form of distractions. If the devil can't stop you from running with sin he did try to get you by slowing you down which is by giving you those unnecessary weights like Masturbat...

Effects of Masturbation

What is Masturbation? You can check my last post for that.  Today let's talk about the Effects Masturbation have on us. First I want us to know that there are different levels to this thing, there's how addicted you will be in masturbation that you won't feel some of this things and that is worse. Effects: ⬛ Loss of Concentration  πŸŸͺ Blurry vision  ⬛ It can affect you when Married  πŸŸͺ A strong sense of Guilt  ⬛ Infections πŸŸͺ It gives the Devil legal to mess around with your life. And many more. Let's get a real-time senerio here. Let's say the urge to masturbate comes, just when you are supposed to be working or reading or praying or even sleeping, then you left the time to do something productive just to watch p*rn and then you masturbate. Now how do you feel after that? You feel weak and for those who still has a conscience you feel this strong sense of guilt knowing that this isn't right (first you have lost the time you should have used to do something mean...

How to stop Masturbation

 ⬛πŸŸͺ  Masturbation is when one touches his or herself to bring sexual pleasure. Well not to dwell much on that, I believe we all know what comes with the effect of masturbation. If you don't, stay tuned on my blog as I will talk more on that. Today I want to talk on how to stop masturbation. I will start with a story. I used to struggle with masturbation, yes I did, I tried different ways to stop, I watched alot of YouTube videos and messages. Some of the things I got from there:     • Pull of triggers (like novels,movies etc). • Go out more often. • speak to someone about it. • Exercise more. And alot more Yes all this helps, but honestly it's not the main thing, I literally tried all this but it didn't stop. At a point i got tired and angry, why couldn't I stop. And that was it, till you get angry of that dirty addiction, you are probably not ready to stop. When I got tired, I surrendered to God and asked for his help, he truly is the only one who can help you...

About this Blog

 πŸŸͺ⬛Hey,  Are you a girl or a boy (yeah I know I named this blog Lady's Diary, but it's for both gender). Probably confused about life especially at that stage where you are still growing or trying to become an adult. You might have made some mistakes along the line, but not to worry God gat you. Or you haven't made any mistakes yet, please stick around so you don't fall a victim of had I know. This Blog is here for you, let's talk about our stories, our experiences, Lies we hear and what's true πŸ’œ This is my first write up here and I want to let you know that it's by God's mercy I'm able to do this, he showed me mercy and I don't want that blessing to remain with just me, I want all youths and children to benefit from it to. All I write and do here the Holy spirit has inspired πŸ•Š️πŸ’œ Love you allπŸ’œ